Fight Analysis: Bob vs Linda, Man vs Woman
Whenever my parents fight, everything always seems to follow the same pattern. My dad, in his aggressive impulsivity, is oftentimes the one who starts the fight. This can usually be over nothing and often involves him raising his voice. Mom in this case, doesnt usually raise her voice but starts off relatively cool but firm in her standing. If the argument continues, things will escalate, now mom will start to raise her voice as well. In the heat of the argument, dad becomes excessively infantile "Oh ok, so it's all my fault now!? I'm the one who's responsible right?!" mom responds angrily to this but she is still in the right: dad is losing and he knows it, he knows that he is acting like a child over nothing, but still he pushes on, determined to save face. If the argument should now reach its apex, mom and dad will simply part and dad will apologise later (*Note: Mom never apologises, dad is the one who often starts the argument and mom is often in the right.) If it gets even more severe than that, then mom will go to her room and close the door. Now dad knows he's in trouble and after he's calmed down, he'll go and apologise to mom after she gives him a lecture on his state of mind. This is the way that my parents always argue, and mom always wins. I dont know whether most mothers use similar tactics, but hers have proven effective. Why are there instances of women being beaten by their husbands? Once again, women are viewed as the weaker sex, and men feel they can take advantage of this. However if a man believes that all women will submit so willingly to his authority he will be cruelly disillusioned when he finds a woman who wont take his shit. Women have one distinct advantage against men physically: men have a weakness, a weakness that can make them crumble at the slightest blow, a weakness called Balls. All any woman has to do to take a man down is nail him between the legs and he'll wish that he never called her a bitch in the first place. In comparison to my previous argument that men are physically more adept than women, I believe that they're even because men may have more muscles than women, but if hit in the right place, even the strongest man will crumble.

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